Aside From Love its Understanding and Adjustment that Makes Any Relation a Success…

Whenever you're in clash with loved ones or anyone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is “attitude”, attitude to understand the situation and to adjust according to it or the attitude of "inflexibility" which could devastate everything in a moment.

When we think and realize that we are incomplete, we search for somebody to complete us. When we find that someone with whom we can live up to a new horizon of happiness, for sometime everything goes pretty well. But after a few years or a few months of a relationship we find that any of the two is not compatible as there is crisis of understanding and adjustment. And we intelligent human beings don’t look at the brighter side of making everything normal by recognizing the need of developing understanding, instead we make a “statement” that I will be the same “accept me or reject me”. Such declaration shatters the other person completely.


“You may forget what you said

but I will never forget what you made me feel”


Before giving such statement one doesn’t even bother to think of the emotional bondage that gets developed over time. Everything in this world could be easily won over by LOVE. Why we “stubborn” humans want to get rid of any challenge that comes to us? Why don’t we understand the situation and adjust accordingly. Each relation on this Globe tastes the fruit of success and happiness only when they learn to love heartedly and establish understanding and above all when they compromise for the sake of their relation.

I really wonder and also get bothered when people just don’t want to understand the importance of adjustment. Why we don’t realize the fact that it is as essential as life is for a dying person. Adjustment is the basic ingredient of joyful and peaceful life. I bet that when you are able to adjust, you are able to understand “eternal love” deeply and therefore you are able to conquer hearts of each and all.


When understanding and adjustment is there the two people as partners enjoy the journey of life…

They wish to make the journey of spiritual growth...
Their love and trust keep them together…
Their intuition guides them…
They consult with each other…
They behave like friends…
They laugh a lot…
And ultimately they become equals…

This is what that makes their relation a Success…

One of my loving friend sent a beautiful Love filled message. I heartedly wanted to share it with you all as love and laughter gets doubled when shared…

She wrote in her message…

What a green Field feels seeing Rainy Clouds…??

What a Child Feels, looking at her mother just after birth…??

What a sister feels when her brother hugs her for no reason…??

What a girl feels when her loved one holds her hand for a walk in pleasant weather…??

What a father feels when his son hugs him and says Dad I love you…??

What a friend feels to see your message stating “I need you” after having has a huge fight…??
There are many words which can define all these fantastic feelings but its love and only love which connects us all in each and every sphere.

Significant moments of ones life never come back but just a slight remembrance of those moments bring flood of tears. Why this happens?? Its "love" that makes us burst into loud laughs and cries. The love, relation and laughter shared in those moments result in the salty tears.

This mighty world is a joy of time being. Life can betray us anytime, no ones know when and where. Do not bless yourself with feelings of remorse.


Enjoy every bit of a moment with Love to greatest extent so that never you have complains from yourself and from others for not sharing lovable, cherishable time. 

Today, as I woke up I had a question in my mind and that was about motivating oneself.

What motivates us humans to move towards any obsession in life? What is the force behind our energies making us to look at the horizon each day with a new hope?

Why we struggle each day with our hassled lives, why and above all for whom?

The same moment other thing clicked in my mind and that was about animals living together in harmony. You might have noticed a number of birds flying together making great views for us to enjoy. I really wonder what is that which makes them move together in an assemblage.

When I was entangled with these thoughts I saw an ant carrying tiny piece of bread, I followed her like Bond and found her sharing that tiny piece of bread with other ants, may be her family members. Then I realized that the principal inspiration at the back of every thing that we do is a result of our LOVE for our near and dear ones.

“It is love which binds us all in any situation. It is the eternal bondage between any relations and is undoubtedly richest feeling on earth. Showcase your infinite love for near and dear ones. Live lightly and happily with love”