Aside From Love its Understanding and Adjustment that Makes Any Relation a Success…
Whenever you're in clash with loved ones or anyone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is “attitude”, attitude to understand the situation and to adjust according to it or the attitude of "inflexibility" which could devastate everything in a moment.
When we think and realize that we are incomplete, we search for somebody to complete us. When we find that someone with whom we can live up to a new horizon of happiness, for sometime everything goes pretty well. But after a few years or a few months of a relationship we find that any of the two is not compatible as there is crisis of understanding and adjustment. And we intelligent human beings don’t look at the brighter side of making everything normal by recognizing the need of developing understanding, instead we make a “statement” that I will be the same “accept me or reject me”. Such declaration shatters the other person completely.
“You may forget what you said
but I will never forget what you made me feel”
Before giving such statement one doesn’t even bother to think of the emotional bondage that gets developed over time. Everything in this world could be easily won over by LOVE. Why we “stubborn” humans want to get rid of any challenge that comes to us? Why don’t we understand the situation and adjust accordingly. Each relation on this Globe tastes the fruit of success and happiness only when they learn to love heartedly and establish understanding and above all when they compromise for the sake of their relation.
I really wonder and also get bothered when people just don’t want to understand the importance of adjustment. Why we don’t realize the fact that it is as essential as life is for a dying person. Adjustment is the basic ingredient of joyful and peaceful life. I bet that when you are able to adjust, you are able to understand “eternal love” deeply and therefore you are able to conquer hearts of each and all.
When understanding and adjustment is there the two people as partners enjoy the journey of life…
They wish to make the journey of spiritual growth...
Their love and trust keep them together…
Their intuition guides them…
They consult with each other…
They behave like friends…
They laugh a lot…
And ultimately they become equals…
This is what that makes their relation a Success…
Whenever you're in clash with loved ones or anyone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is “attitude”, attitude to understand the situation and to adjust according to it or the attitude of "inflexibility" which could devastate everything in a moment.
When we think and realize that we are incomplete, we search for somebody to complete us. When we find that someone with whom we can live up to a new horizon of happiness, for sometime everything goes pretty well. But after a few years or a few months of a relationship we find that any of the two is not compatible as there is crisis of understanding and adjustment. And we intelligent human beings don’t look at the brighter side of making everything normal by recognizing the need of developing understanding, instead we make a “statement” that I will be the same “accept me or reject me”. Such declaration shatters the other person completely.
“You may forget what you said
but I will never forget what you made me feel”
Before giving such statement one doesn’t even bother to think of the emotional bondage that gets developed over time. Everything in this world could be easily won over by LOVE. Why we “stubborn” humans want to get rid of any challenge that comes to us? Why don’t we understand the situation and adjust accordingly. Each relation on this Globe tastes the fruit of success and happiness only when they learn to love heartedly and establish understanding and above all when they compromise for the sake of their relation.
I really wonder and also get bothered when people just don’t want to understand the importance of adjustment. Why we don’t realize the fact that it is as essential as life is for a dying person. Adjustment is the basic ingredient of joyful and peaceful life. I bet that when you are able to adjust, you are able to understand “eternal love” deeply and therefore you are able to conquer hearts of each and all.
When understanding and adjustment is there the two people as partners enjoy the journey of life…
They wish to make the journey of spiritual growth...
Their love and trust keep them together…
Their intuition guides them…
They consult with each other…
They behave like friends…
They laugh a lot…
And ultimately they become equals…
This is what that makes their relation a Success…
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